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Your Desire Answers the Room — Which Is Why the Getaway Fell Flat

You booked the nice place to fix this. New city, good hotel, a night with no one to interrupt. And the night went flat anyway — the two of you in a more expensive room running the …

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If You Can Only Come One Way, You Haven't Narrowed — You've Grooved a Path

# If You Can Only Come One Way, You Haven't Narrowed — You've Grooved a PathIf there is exactly one way you can reach orgasm — the same position, the same pressure, the same speed,…

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Why an Ordinary Thing Sometimes Beats Your Favorite Toy

# Why an Ordinary Thing Sometimes Beats Your Favorite ToySometimes a plain object you grabbed on a whim works better than the toy you bought for exactly this. This article explains…

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Wanting the Feeling of Being Seen Isn't Wanting to Be Exposed

A lot of women are drawn to the edge of being seen and then frightened by what it seems to say about them. The thought arrives — being watched, being almost caught, being on displa…

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The Part You'd Hide Is the Part That Lands as Chosen

There is a part of your body you tuck away. The feet you pull under the covers. The belly you hold in. The labia you were once told were "too much." The spot you steer hands and mo…

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There Is No Map of You, Only Your Calibration: Why the G-Spot Was Never a Button

# There Is No Map of You, Only Your Calibration: Why the G-Spot Was Never a ButtonIf you have ever gone hunting for your G-spot — or let a partner dig around for it — and come away…

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Wet Is Not the Green Light: The Readiness Signal You Can Actually Feel

# Wet Is Not the Green Light: The Readiness Signal You Can Actually FeelIf sex sometimes hurts at the start, or the first push in feels like nothing even though you were "wet enoug…

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Wetness Isn't the Same as Wanting

Getting wet and wanting sex are two separate signals. One does not prove the other.

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Why You Can't Judge in Advance What You Like

Before arousal you're a poor judge of what you want, because desire often follows arousal rather than leading it.

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