Amour Ⅳ brings together a shaft that moves in and out on its own, a heating core that warms it, and a separate motor on an outer arm for the clitoris. Warmth makes the silicone feel closer to skin and helps you settle in, while the motion gives rhythmic pressure inside and the arm keeps a steady vibration outside.
Switch on the heat a few minutes ahead and begin outside, on the clitoris, until you feel swollen and soft. With water-based lube, insert it slowly and start the movement on its lowest speed, letting the fullness settle. Angle it toward your belly for the front wall rather than pushing deeper. It is waterproof, so it can come into the bath.
How to use it well
How it works on your body
Inside, the front wall of the vagina about a finger-length in (often called the G-spot area) sits against the internal part of the clitoris and responds well to firm, rhythmic pressure. Vibration is felt more clearly in the outer part of the vagina, near the opening, while deeper in, pressure matters more, so the angle of the shaft counts for more than its depth.
The in-and-out motion changes the contact point constantly, which keeps the tissue from settling into one sensation. Many people find warmth comfortable; keep it low and pause if anything feels too hot. The outer arm works on the clitoral glans and the tissue around it, so stimulation arrives from inside and outside at once.
Ways to use it
- Solo, slow build: warm it, start with the outer arm alone, and add the in-and-out motion once you are aroused.
- Solo, warmth first: if you want comfort more than intensity, use the heat with the lowest motion and let it rest.
- With a partner: your partner can hold the base while you steer the angle and speed.
- In the bath: it is waterproof, so it can come into warm water with you.
Who it suits
It tends to suit you if you enjoy internal stimulation, like warmth, and want motion without doing the work yourself. If you are new to insertable toys, a slimmer, still shape is an easier start. If you want external stimulation without insertion, a clitoral vibrator suits better.
Good to know
Wait to insert anything until you feel aroused: when the tissue around the vaginal opening is swollen and soft, it stretches more comfortably than when it is still tight. Start on the lowest setting. If the feeling turns numb, sharp or sore, pause or change the angle rather than turning it up.
Use a water-based lubricant; silicone-based lubricant can damage silicone toys. Wash it with warm water and a mild soap after each use, let it dry fully, and store it apart from other silicone items.