Flame Ⅱ is a thick, flexible bar with a motor at each end. Bend it into your curve: one end sits inside against the front wall, where the G-spot area is, and the other rests on the clitoris. The thicker bar adds fullness, and the two motors build feeling inside and out together. It can be worn under lingerie.
Start on the lowest setting and adjust the bend before you turn anything up; a small change in angle matters more than depth. If one end turns numb, pause rather than increasing. With a partner, it can stay in through foreplay, and the remote version lets them set the pace.
How to use it well
How it works on your body
Two different kinds of tissue respond at once. Outside, the clitoris answers vibration; its glans is dense with nerve endings, so steady contact on one spot can turn sharp, while the tissue around it takes broader pressure well. Inside, the front wall about a finger-length in is the G-spot area, which answers pressure more than fast buzzing. Vibration is felt chiefly in the outer third of the vagina, so the inner end does not need to go deep.
The bendable bar decides where each end lands. Because bodies differ, the curve you set matters more than how far you insert it.
Ways to use it
- Solo, lying back: when you want both sensations without holding anything, set the curve, insert the inner end and let the outer end settle on the clitoris.
- Worn under underwear: for slow, low-level arousal while you do other things at home, a snug pair keeps it in place.
- With a partner: during foreplay it can stay in while your partner kisses and touches you; with the remote version, they can change the pattern so you do not know what comes next.
- Just the outer end: if you are not in the mood for anything inside, the outer end can be used on the clitoris and labia by hand.
Who it suits
It tends to suit you if you like internal and clitoral stimulation together and want your hands free, or if you enjoy handing control to a partner. If you want a lot of stretch, a larger insertable shape will suit you better; if you want to use a toy in the bath, look for one rated for full submersion.
Good to know
Start low and let arousal come first; tissue that is swollen and soft tolerates more. Numbness means pause, not turn it up. Use a water-based lube with silicone toys. It resists splashes, so rinse it under running water with mild soap, but do not submerge it. Bend it gently and let it dry before storing.