The Art of Intimate Motion: Extended Butterfly (Butterfly Stretch)

1. Position Overview

1.1 Name

• Common Name: Extended Butterfly
• Alternate Names: Butterfly Stretch, Extended Winged Butterfly

1.2 Scene (Applicable Environment)

Applicable Environments:
The Extended Butterfly position is ideal for a bed, sofa, or any other soft surface that allows the woman to lie on her back while extending her legs wide apart. This position offers a deeper level of access and requires the woman to open her body in a more spread position than the basic Flat Butterfly. The Extended Butterfly is great for partners who want to explore deeper penetration while maintaining a sensual, intimate rhythm. The position’s open leg placement allows for better targeting of sensitive areas like the G-spot, making it perfect for intense internal and external stimulation. It’s particularly suited for those who enjoy an extended lovemaking session with gradual, slow movements.

1.3 Setup

• Female’s Position:
  
  
1. The woman lies on her back, legs spread wide open, feet flat on the bed. Her knees are bent and spread apart, creating a "butterfly" shape with her legs.
2. Her body remains relaxed, and she can either rest her hands on the bed or use them to touch her partner, enhancing intimacy.
3. To further enhance the angle of penetration, the woman can either keep her legs completely open or elevate her pelvis slightly with a pillow, which deepens the penetration while still maintaining comfort.
• Male’s Position:
  
  
1. The man kneels between the woman's legs, aligning his body with hers. His legs should be positioned to allow deep access while still providing stability.
2. The man uses his knees and thighs to stabilize his body, while his upper body can lean forward or remain upright, depending on the desired rhythm and depth of penetration.
3. The man can adjust the angle of his thrusts, either thrusting slowly or more deeply, to stimulate sensitive areas like the G-spot or clitoris. He may also use his hands to caress the woman’s body during the act.

1.4 Insertion Action

• Male’s Action:
  The man enters the woman gently, beginning with slow, deliberate thrusts. The depth of penetration can be adjusted by slightly tilting his pelvis or altering the speed of his movements. Since the woman’s body is fully exposed and open, the man can adjust his thrusting to target the G-spot more effectively. The man’s movements are controlled, allowing him to vary the rhythm based on the woman’s reactions.
  
  
• Female’s Action:
  The woman remains passive but active in controlling the depth of penetration by adjusting her leg positioning or by raising her pelvis slightly. This allows her to better control how deep the man enters. She can also use her hands to touch her own body, focusing on stimulating her clitoris or breasts to heighten pleasure. Her relaxed body and open legs create a sensation of full exposure and accessibility, making the experience both intimate and intense.
  
  

1.5 Advantages

• Deeper Penetration:
  The Extended Butterfly position provides deep penetration, especially when the woman elevates her pelvis or keeps her legs fully open. The deep access allows for more targeted G-spot stimulation and enhances the intensity of penetration for both partners.
  
  
• Enhanced G-Spot Stimulation:
  The angle of penetration in this position allows the man to better stimulate the G-spot, thanks to the woman’s open leg placement. The deeper the thrust, the more effective the G-spot stimulation becomes, which leads to a higher likelihood of reaching orgasm for the woman.
  
  
• Full-Body Access:
  This position allows for full access to the woman’s body. While the man is thrusting, his hands are free to explore her clitoris, breasts, or other sensitive areas. This multi-point stimulation enhances pleasure and can lead to quicker, more intense orgasms.
  
  
• Comfort and Control:
  Even though the position involves a wide-open leg placement, it is relatively comfortable for both partners. The man can maintain control over the rhythm and depth of his thrusts, while the woman can relax into the position and focus on receiving pleasure. The ability to control the pelvic tilt with the use of a pillow or her legs enhances the overall comfort and pleasure.
  
  
• Increased Intimacy:
  The Extended Butterfly position allows for eye contact, kissing, and full-body contact. Both partners remain close, which fosters emotional connection and strengthens the bond. The position promotes intimacy, making it ideal for partners who want to enjoy prolonged, connected lovemaking.
  
  

1.6 Key Points

• Leg Placement for Deeper Access:
  The woman’s leg placement allows for deeper penetration. By either keeping her legs spread wide apart or raising her pelvis with the use of a pillow, she can adjust the depth to enhance pleasure. The man can vary his thrusts based on her leg position to target the most sensitive areas.
  
  
• Rhythm and Depth Control:
  The man has the ability to control the rhythm and depth of penetration, and the woman can guide him by adjusting her body angle or leg position. The position is versatile, allowing both partners to adjust the pace and intensity of penetration.
  
  
• Hands-Free Clitoral Stimulation:
  Both partners have their hands free to stimulate the clitoris, breasts, or other parts of the body. This hands-free capability is one of the primary advantages of the Extended Butterfly, allowing for a more intense and prolonged orgasmic experience for the woman.
  
  

1.7 Variations

• Legs Over Shoulders Variation
  Setup: In this variation, the woman places her legs over the man’s shoulders, further elevating her pelvis and increasing the depth of penetration. This position allows for more intense stimulation of the G-spot and can provide a more powerful orgasmic experience.
  Advantages: Raising the legs over the shoulders provides deeper penetration, enhancing pleasure for both partners. The woman can control the depth and rhythm by adjusting her pelvis position.
  
  
• Pillow Under Hips Variation
  Setup: The woman places a pillow under her hips to elevate her pelvis slightly, altering the angle of penetration.
  Advantages: The slight elevation changes the angle of entry, making it easier to target the G-spot. This adjustment increases the intensity and helps both partners achieve a deeper, more satisfying connection.
  
  

2. Techniques for Delayed Orgasm

2.1 Male Techniques

• Slow Grinding for Delayed Orgasm
  Technique Description: The man can slow his thrusting to delay orgasm, prolonging pleasure for both partners.
  Steps:
  
  
1. Begin with slow, deliberate thrusts, ensuring each stroke is deep and controlled.
2. When nearing climax, slow down or pause briefly to delay ejaculation and prolong the pleasure.
• Rhythm Control
  Technique Description: By controlling the rhythm and depth of his thrusts, the man can delay orgasm, giving both partners more time to enjoy each other’s company.
  Steps:
  
  
1. Start slow and gradually increase the rhythm as the woman adjusts to his movements.
2. When nearing orgasm, slow down or take brief pauses to prolong the experience.

2.2 Female Techniques

• Pelvic Muscle Control
  Technique Description: The woman can contract and relax her pelvic muscles during thrusting to delay orgasm and build more intensity.
  Steps:
  
  
1. The woman gently contracts her pelvic muscles during each thrust, increasing friction and the depth of penetration.
2. As orgasm nears, she can relax her muscles to extend the pleasurable sensations and delay climax.
• Clitoral Stimulation Control
  Technique Description: The woman can reduce or stop clitoral stimulation to delay orgasm and build intensity.
  Steps:
  
  
1. When nearing orgasm, the woman can pause or reduce clitoral stimulation for a short period.
2. After a brief pause, she can resume stimulation, intensifying the pleasure and prolonging orgasm.

2.3 Dialogue Example

• Male: "Let’s slow down and enjoy this for a little longer. How does it feel?"
• Female: "It’s perfect. I love how close we are. Let’s take our time."

3. Orgasm Acceleration Techniques

3.1 Male Techniques

• Head Stimulation for G-Spot
  Technique Description: The man adjusts his angle to ensure consistent stimulation of the woman’s G-spot, accelerating orgasm.
  Steps:
  
  
1. The man shifts his hips so that each thrust directly targets the G-spot.
2. As the speed and depth increase, continued G-spot stimulation accelerates orgasm for the woman.
• Power Thrusting
  Technique Description: By increasing the speed and intensity of his thrusts, the man can help the woman reach orgasm faster.
  Steps:
  
  
1. The man increases his thrusting speed and depth, pushing deeper with each stroke.
2. The rapid, deep thrusts help the woman reach orgasm more quickly, heightening the pleasure.

3.2 Female Techniques

• Dual Stimulation
  Technique Description: Stimulating both the G-spot and clitoris at the same time can help accelerate orgasm for the woman.
  Steps:
  
  
1. The woman can use a vibrator or her partner’s hand to stimulate her clitoris while adjusting her pelvis for deeper G-spot penetration.
2. The combined stimulation of both areas accelerates orgasm and increases its intensity, leading to a more powerful release.
• Rapid Rhythm
  Technique Description: Increasing the rhythm of thrusting speeds up orgasm for the woman.
  Steps:
  
  
1. The woman adjusts her rhythm to match her partner’s thrusts, increasing both clitoral and vaginal stimulation.
2. The faster rhythm brings orgasm closer and amplifies the sensation, intensifying the overall experience.

3.3 Dialogue Example

• Male: "Let me make sure I’m hitting the right spot with every thrust, so you can feel it even more."
• Female: "Yes, that’s it! Keep going, I’m getting so close."

4. Sex Toys and Position Integration

4.1 Types of Sex Toys and Their Functions

1. Vibrating Bullet
• Function: A vibrating bullet provides clitoral stimulation and is small enough to be used in various positions. It can be applied directly to the clitoris, enhancing the pleasure during deep penetration.
• Usage in Extended Butterfly:
• The woman can apply the vibrating bullet to her clitoris during the position. As the man thrusts deeply and the woman’s legs remain extended, the bullet will provide powerful external stimulation, increasing arousal and helping the woman reach orgasm faster. The deep penetration combined with the vibrating sensation makes the experience more intense.
2. Vibrating Ring
• Function: A vibrating ring is worn around the male partner’s penis, delivering vibrations that stimulate both the man and the woman. This can enhance clitoral stimulation and provide a heightened sense of pleasure for both partners.
• Usage in Extended Butterfly:
• The man can wear a vibrating ring while in the position, delivering vibrations to both the woman’s clitoris and his penis. This dual stimulation intensifies pleasure for both partners, helping the woman reach orgasm faster while also increasing the man’s pleasure from the vibrations.

4.2 Integration of Sex Toys into Extended Butterfly

• Vibrating Bullet & Clitoral Stimulation:
• The vibrating bullet stimulates the woman’s clitoris, increasing external pleasure during the deep penetration of Extended Butterfly. The vibrations enhance arousal and make the experience more intense, helping the woman climax faster.
• Vibrating Ring & Dual Stimulation:
• The vibrating ring worn by the man provides dual stimulation by enhancing clitoral stimulation for the woman and increasing the man’s pleasure. The vibrating sensations complement the woman’s deep penetration, creating a more fulfilling and synchronized orgasmic experience for both partners.

Summary of Updated Sex Toy Use in Extended Butterfly:

• Vibrating Bullet will enhance clitoral stimulation, making external sensations more intense and helping the woman climax faster.
• Vibrating Ring will provide dual stimulation, intensifying pleasure for both the woman and the man, and increasing overall arousal.

Dialogue Suggestions for Extended Butterfly

• Male: "The vibrations feel amazing. Does the bullet make your clit feel more sensitive?"
• Female: "Yes, it’s incredible. The combination of the deep thrusts and the vibrations is making everything feel so much stronger."

Conclusion

The combination of a vibrating bullet and a vibrating ring in the Extended Butterfly position increases both internal and external stimulation. The vibrating bullet enhances clitoral stimulation, while the vibrating ring provides dual stimulation for both the man and the woman. These toys add extra layers of pleasure, helping both partners reach orgasm faster and more intensely, and making the experience more satisfying overall.

5. Advanced Techniques & Challenges

5.1 Advanced Position Variations & Control Challenges

• Technique: Depth and Rhythm Control
  Core Focus:
  The challenge is to control both the depth and rhythm of the thrusts while maintaining intimacy and pleasure. The woman controls the pace, but the man can complement her movements to enhance the experience.
  Technique Implementation:
  
  
1. The woman can experiment with different speeds, either going slow for deeper penetration or faster for more intense stimulation.
2. The man can help by thrusting upward in sync with the woman’s movements, or guiding her hips for more precise control over the rhythm and depth.
• Challenge: Synchronizing Movements for Maximum Intensity
  Core Focus:
  Both partners need to synchronize their movements to achieve maximum pleasure. Staying in tune with each other’s rhythm enhances the connection and intensifies the sensations for both.
  Technique Implementation:
  
  
1. The woman can guide the pace while the man offers subtle feedback with his thrusts, ensuring the movements remain synchronized.
2. They can experiment with slight changes in their rhythm to create more exciting variations during the session.

5.2 High-Difficulty Multi-Point Stimulation

• Technique: Simultaneous G-Spot and Clitoral Stimulation
  Core Focus:
  This technique involves stimulating both the G-spot and clitoris at the same time, which leads to a more powerful orgasm.
  Technique Implementation:
  
  
1. The woman can use her own hand or a vibrator to stimulate her clitoris while riding her partner for deeper G-spot penetration.
2. The man can assist by caressing her breasts or neck for further stimulation.
3. The combined stimulation of both areas leads to an intense and powerful orgasm.
• Challenge: Balancing Speed and Depth
  Core Focus:
  The challenge here is to maintain a balance between speed and depth while keeping the rhythm steady. Both partners need to engage and stay connected without overwhelming each other.
  Technique Implementation:
  
  
1. The woman can alternate between deep, slow thrusts and quick, shallow movements.
2. By adjusting her rhythm, she can maintain excitement while avoiding overstimulation, creating a steady, enjoyable build-up to orgasm.

5.3 Emotional Interaction & Orgasm Control

• Technique: Emotional Synchronization & Control
  Core Focus:
  The emotional connection between partners is essential for a shared orgasm. By staying emotionally synchronized, both partners can build toward climax together, enhancing the experience.
  Technique Implementation:
  
  
1. The couple maintains eye contact, kisses, and engages in intimate verbal communication to keep their emotional connection strong.
2. As orgasm approaches, they adjust their movements to synchronize their climaxes, creating a shared and more fulfilling orgasmic experience.
• Challenge: Coordinating Simultaneous Orgasm
  Core Focus:
  Achieving simultaneous orgasms strengthens the emotional and physical connection between partners. Synchronizing climaxes adds a new layer of intimacy and pleasure.
  Technique Implementation:
  
  
1. Both partners adjust their movements to ensure they climax together.
2. Through synchronized thrusts and emotional connection, they both experience a more intense and fulfilling orgasm.

Conclusion

The Extended Butterfly position provides a unique and intense experience by allowing for deep penetration and optimal G-spot stimulation. With the added benefits of hands-free clitoral and breast stimulation, this position can lead to highly satisfying and prolonged orgasms. By integrating vibrators and Kegel balls, both partners can intensify the sensations and prolong pleasure, making this position ideal for couples looking to explore new levels of intimacy and connection. The relaxed yet highly stimulating nature of the Extended Butterfly makes it perfect for couples who wish to enjoy deep physical pleasure while maintaining emotional closeness throughout their lovemaking.