This guide explains how to use Leo Allure Ⅰ, a strong, warming wand with two ends: why its power is best treated as room to spare, and how to use that room to go slower when you want to.
What it is
Allure Ⅰ is a long wand made of soft silicone all over, with a motor at each end. The larger head carries the strong vibration and is the part you will use most, outside and just inside. The handle end vibrates more gently and can also go inside. It can warm to about 40 °C.
Strong means fast, if you let it
With a toy this strong, the high setting held directly on the clitoris typically brings orgasm within about a minute. That is not a problem. Sometimes fast is exactly what you want. But it is only one of the things this toy can do.
A fast orgasm and a slowly built one often feel different, not just shorter or longer. When the vibration is strong from the first second, there is little time for arousal to spread and build first. When you build more slowly, more of your pelvis gets involved before you get there.
Neither kind is better, and how much stimulation you need says nothing about how much you enjoy sex. The point is that with this much power available, you get to choose. Used on low, with movement, it gives you time. The high settings are still there when you want them.
Warm it first
Switch on the warming before you start and hold the head in your hand until your palm feels clearly warm. The warmth is there so that the first touch is not cold. It will not feel hot.
On the outside
The lowest setting on this toy is already fairly strong. That makes it a good place to start, even if you usually like things intense.
- Use the side of the head, not the top. Pressed straight onto your clitoris, the head concentrates a lot of vibration on a very small, very sensitive spot, and it can go numb quickly. The side spreads it out.
- Keep it moving. Slide it along your vulva, from above your clitoris down toward your vaginal opening and back. When the contact point keeps changing, the feeling stays fresh for longer.
- Put something in between. Through your underwear, or with your fingers between the toy and your skin, the vibration feels softer and easier to control. Notice how much of the vibration still reaches you, and remove the layer when you want more.
Steady vibration tends to work well for warming up. Changing patterns can help in the middle, when a steady setting starts to fade. You can keep the higher settings for when you are close, if you want to use them.
Just inside, against the front wall
Once your body has opened, the head can go just inside. Being wet is a reflex and can happen early. Being ready is different: for most women, the inner walls fill with blood, feel smoother and softer, and open. If you put the head in before that and turn the setting up, it can hurt, and the soreness can last. If putting it in feels like pushing, give it more time outside.
With some water-based lube, let the head go just inside and tilt it toward your belly, so it rests on the front wall. Just inside the entrance on that side, the skin feels slightly rougher: this is the G-spot area. Behind it lie the urethra and the spongy tissue around it, close to the inner parts of the clitoris. Steady pressure, small rubbing movements, and the two together all work there. A good one to try first is the combination: press the head into the wall and make small movements at the same time, then keep whatever feels best to you. It does not need to go deep, and long in-and-out strokes add little. On the outside the feeling is sharp and close to the surface; just inside, against the front wall, it is usually deeper and heavier.
What you feel there differs from woman to woman: deep fullness, an urge to pee, not much at all, or a mild ache. It is a normal mixed signal from the tissue around the urethra and the clitoris, not a full bladder, and it tends to come and go. If it is uncomfortable or feels like a real need to go, stop and go. More: the urge to pee during sex.
You can move back and forth between outside and just inside while it stays comfortable; pause if you get sore, numb or irritated. Coming back to the outside after a while inside can make it feel fresh again.
When it fades
If the feeling fades, your body has probably got used to a sensation that has not changed for a while. Before turning it up, move it, change the pattern, or switch to the other end for a minute. Turning it up when things feel numb usually makes them duller. More: When it goes numb: pause, don't turn it up. If numbness, pain or swelling lasts after you stop, stop using the toy and talk to a doctor.
With a partner
- During foreplay. Your partner can hold the head on the outside, keeping to the lower settings, or you can use it on yourself while they watch. Watching you is also a way for them to learn exactly how you like to be touched.
- During sex. You can hold the head against your clitoris on a low setting. The vibration also reaches your partner, and a low setting keeps the pace in your hands. The wand is too large to sit between two bodies, so someone has to hold it.
- If your partner finishes before you. If you are still aroused, the stronger settings may no longer feel sudden. You can carry on with it, alone or with your partner holding it.
In the bath
It is rated IPX7, and the manufacturer says it can be used in the bath or shower. Avoid very hot water. Water washes away your own wetness and lube, so the bath suits outside use best; if you want it inside, it is easier after you get out.
Who it suits
Allure Ⅰ suits you if you like strong vibration and want to learn how to pace it, or if you want one toy that works outside and just inside.
It is not the right choice if you want something small or easy to carry, if you want something hands-free or remote-controlled, if you want a toy that sits between two bodies during sex, or if strong stimulation tends to overwhelm you.
Safety and care
More: lube and silicone, what water ratings mean, when to check with a doctor.
- The manufacturer advises not running the highest setting for more than 10 minutes at a time.
- It is for external and vaginal use. It is not for anal use: it has no flared base made to stop it from going all the way in.
- Use a water-based lubricant. Silicone-based lube can damage silicone toys over time.
- Wash it with warm water and mild soap. It can be washed whole. Do not boil it or soak it in alcohol.
- If you use it on your partner as well, wash it before it goes back on or inside you.
- If you are pregnant, recovering from pelvic surgery, or have an infection or broken skin, talk to a doctor before using it. If you have reacted to silicone before, ask a doctor before using it.
- Store it away from other silicone toys so they do not stick together. Charge it every couple of months if you are not using it.
What to take away
Allure Ⅰ can make you come fast, and sometimes that is what you want. When you want more than that, use its power as room to spare: warm it, start on low with the side of the head, keep it moving, go just inside only once your body has opened, and keep the high settings for when you are close.