This guide explains how to use Leo Lust Ⅲ, a full-sized realistic dildo that moves on its own: why its size needs your body to be fully open first, and how to control the angle and the motion once it is in.
What it does
Lust Ⅲ thrusts in and out, sways, and vibrates. The thrusting and the swaying do the real work. The vibration is weak, so if you are expecting it to feel like a vibrator, you will be disappointed. On its own the vibration feels like a buzz inside; with thrusting it feels like something moving in and out; with sway added it feels like being pressed and turned inside.
The head has the thickest, softest layer of silicone. The shaft is firmer, so it keeps its shape instead of folding when it goes in. Inside is a bendable core: bend it and it stays at that angle. It has a suction base, it can be worn in a harness, and it comes with a remote. Its water rating is IPX6. The manufacturer says it can be rinsed, but it should not be soaked.
Fullness is a preference, not a level
This is a large toy. What it mainly gives you is the feeling of being filled and held. Some women love that. Others find the same size too much pressure. Neither is a better or more advanced body; it is a preference.
Much of the feeling of fullness comes from the entrance and from contact deep inside, not from the middle. Once you are fully aroused, the middle of the vagina tends to widen. So the width of the toy matters most as it passes through the entrance.
It needs a fully open body
This is not a warm-up toy. Being wet is a reflex and can happen early, even when you are nervous. Being ready for something this size is different: for most women, the inner walls fill with blood, feel smoother and softer, and open, and the deep end of the vagina lifts and lengthens. Before that, a large toy feels like pressure from outside, your muscles tighten, and going deep can hit the cervix and hurt badly.
Use your hands or another toy on the outside first, for as long as you need. If putting it in feels like pushing, you are not there yet.
Taking it in
- Use plenty of water-based lube on the toy and on yourself, however wet you already are, and keep the bottle within reach.
- Let it in under your own weight rather than pushing it. Go down a little, stop, let your body adjust, then go a little further.
- Once it is in, leave the motion off for a moment and get used to the size first.
- When you switch it on, start on the lowest setting with the vibration and, as the manufacturer advises for first use, the shortest thrusting stroke. Add thrusting and sway only when the fullness feels good.
Setting it up
- On the floor with two pillows. Stick the suction base to a clean, smooth floor and put a pillow on each side. Kneel over it and sit on the pillows as you lower yourself. The pillows take your weight, so you control how deep it goes and do not have to hold a squat. With your knees on the pillows, your thighs come together naturally. Keep the remote in your hand, because you will not be able to reach the base.
- On the edge of a bed or a chair. The height is easier to control than on the floor.
- On a wall. For standing.
- In your hand. Holding it gives you the most control, but your hand will tire.
Whatever set-up you use, moving your own hips gives you more control than letting the toy do all the moving.
Angle and depth
The front wall of the vagina, the side toward your belly, is one place to try directing the pressure. To aim at it, bend the core so the head curves toward your belly. The toy then holds that angle for you, so you do not have to twist into a position to get it. On the front wall, pressure, rubbing and the two together all work. The thrusting and sway give you both at once, which makes the combination easy to try; if you prefer one of them, adjust the stroke and the sway.
For most women, the angle matters more than going deeper. A minority are different (more on deep pressure): what works for them is firm pressure deep inside, at the cervix and the very back of the vagina. If that is you, it is not a mistake. It does mean waiting until you are fully aroused, because deep pressure before the deep end has lifted is what hurts.
You can also add clitoral stimulation with your hand or a small external vibrator. For many women, stimulation of the clitoris during penetration adds a lot.
With a partner
- The remote. Your partner can hold the remote and set the rhythm while you ride it or lie back. Not knowing what comes next is a different kind of stimulation, and it works best with someone you actually want to be led by, who pays attention to how you react.
- In a harness. A partner can wear it in a harness. The bendable core lets you set the angle to fit both your bodies.
Who it suits
Lust Ⅲ suits you if you have used insertable toys before, if you like the feeling of being filled, if you like deep pressure, or if you want a partner involved through the remote or a harness.
It is not the right choice if you have not used an insertable toy before, if large sizes feel like too much, if you mainly want clitoral stimulation, if you want warmth or vibration, if you want to use it in the bath, or if you need a quiet toy. The thrusting and swaying are mechanical movements and make noise that the silicone cannot hide.
Safety and care
More: lube and silicone, what water ratings mean, when to check with a doctor.
- Go in only once you are fully aroused, and stop if you feel pain or numbness. If either continues after you take it out, see a doctor.
- If you feel burning, stinging or a tearing pain at the entrance, do not try a larger toy or keep going to get used to it. Stop, and see a doctor to check the cause.
- The manufacturer advises not running the highest setting for more than 10 minutes at a time.
- Before you rely on the suction base, make sure the surface is clean, smooth and firm. If it comes loose mid-use, you can get hurt.
- Use a water-based lubricant. Silicone-based lube can damage silicone toys over time.
- If it is ever used anally, keep it for anal use only from then on. Never let it touch the inside of the vagina, even after washing.
- If you share it with a partner, wash it before it goes back inside you.
- If you are pregnant, recovering from pelvic surgery, or have an infection or broken skin, talk to a doctor before using it. If you have reacted to silicone before, ask a doctor before using it.
- Wash it with warm water and mild soap, including the ridges and where the shaft meets the base. Rinse it, but do not submerge it. Do not boil it or soak it in alcohol. Store it away from other silicone toys.
What to take away
Lust Ⅲ is about fullness and motion, not vibration. Wait until your body has fully opened, let it in slowly under your own weight, bend it toward the front wall or, if deep pressure is what works for you, take your time before going deep, and add motion only after the fullness feels good.