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If You Want to Try Squirting, Push Out Instead of Holding In

Squirting is not a goal. If you want to try, the key is what you do with the urge to pee: bear down gently instead of clenching. Where the feeling builds, and how to keep it yours.

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What a Blindfold Takes Away: Watching Yourself and Seeing What Comes Next

Some people report that a blindfold takes away watching yourself and anticipating what comes next, leaving attention on the touch happening now. How to start, and how to keep it safe.

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Strong Vibration Works Better Once You're Aroused: When to Bring a Toy Into Sex

Strong vibration at the very start often falls flat, but tends to add to the feeling once arousal is under way. How to use a toy at the start, in a pause, and after your partner finishes, if you still want more.

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Squeezing Your Thighs Speeds the Climb, It Doesn't Turn Up the Touch

Squeezing your thighs does not make the touch stronger; for many women it makes the climb faster. How it works, and how to use it alone, with a toy or with a partner.

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The Tip of Your Clitoris Needs a Buffer, Not More Power

The most sensitive part of your clitoris is the part that overloads first. Why a buffer gets you further than pressing harder, and the different ways to touch.

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Feeling Looser Halfway Through Is Your Vagina Opening, Not a Flaw

Feeling looser partway through sex is your vagina opening as you get aroused. Here is how it changes shape, and what that means for where and how deep you like to be touched.

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