Learn Use the Frenulum to Pace Orgasm For many men, one small spot under the head of the penis decides how fast they come. The parts of the glans, how each likes to be touched, and how to use the frenulum on purpose.
Learn Wrist Cuffs for Beginners: Being Held Still Takes Away Decisions Being held still can take away decisions and self-watching. How to start with no equipment, why cuffs not rope, and the rules that make it safe.
Learn The A-Spot Is Real but Hard to Reach, and Fingers Usually Find It Better Than Toys The A-spot sits at the deep end of the front wall. It is only reachable once the body has opened, and fingers usually find it better than toys.
Learn Toy Hygiene Is About the Gaps and What Moves Between Openings Keeping a toy clean is less about the surface you see than about the gaps where things collect and what travels between body openings. Plus the lube, storage and charging advice from the makers.
Learn A Warming Toy Is About Not Being Cold, Not About Heat A warming toy heats to about body temperature. The point is not heat; it is that the first touch is not cold. How to use one, and what to expect.
Learn For Nipples, a Flick Often Does More Than a Squeeze For many people, a light flick that comes and goes does more on the nipple than squeezing or sucking hard. How to use hands and toys, what clamps and suction are, and how to stay safe.
Learn Choose a Position by Where the Pressure Lands and Whose Hands Are Free Instead of learning position names, look at four things: where the pressure lands, whether there is room at the clitoris, whose hands are free, and who sets the rhythm.
Learn Soft, Not Tight, Is a Sign Your Body Is Deeply Aroused Arousal shows up in two stages you can read: first the clitoris swells and wetness starts, then the vulva swells and the muscles around the opening go soft.
Learn Anal Play Starts With a Muscle You Cannot Relax on Command The inner ring of the anus opens on its own, not when told to. Why waiting beats trying, plus lube, a base, the anal-only rule and a prostate section, for any body.
Learn Strength and Rhythm Are Two Different Dials on Your Vibrator When a vibration starts to fade, it is usually the sameness, not the strength. How the strength and rhythm dials differ, and how to use them together.
