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On Top, Rocking Forward and Back Can Keep the Movement at Your Entrance

On top, most women lift and drop. Rocking your hips forward and back instead can keep the movement closer to the entrance of your vagina, where much of your sensitive tissue sits. How to rock from your legs so your thighs stop burning, how to use speed and a small lean, and why bouncing is still fine if you like it.

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Grinding on Top Reaches Your Clitoris Through Your Lips, So It Feels Full, Not Sharp

When you press down and grind on top, most of the contact lands on your outer lips, not on the tip of your clitoris. The pressure travels inward from there, which is why the grind builds a wide, warm fullness instead of a sharp spark. How to do it, why it needs your weight pressing in, and what to add if you want the spark too.

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Sweeping the Tip of the Penis Across the Entrance Works Late in Sex, Not as Foreplay

Holding the penis and sweeping its tip fast across the vaginal opening and inner lips is a technique of its own, and it works near the top of arousal, not at the start. How to do it, why it works, and where squirting fits if you want to try.

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Your Hand Can Make the Entrance Snugger During Sex, and Give Him a Second Grip

During penetration, two fingers around his penis add a second grip, and pressing and lifting your outer lips makes the entrance snugger. How each works, when to use which, and why the control stays with you.

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When He Kneels Upright, Your Front Wall Gets the Speed While He Does the Driving

When your partner kneels upright and keeps his strokes short, the head of his penis rubs the front wall just inside you while you simply receive. Why that lets you take more speed, the angle changes that make it stronger, and why they bring him closer too.

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Hands Can Do More as the Finish Than as the Warm-Up

Fingers, a mouth or a toy that did little at the start can carry her over once penetration has built her arousal. How the switch works, why there is no clock for it, and how to read when.

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Lasting Longer Comes From Where Your Attention Goes, Not From Pushing Harder

Pushing harder usually brings orgasm sooner. Sitting up off your partner is one way to last: it takes touch off the rim of the head and gives your attention a job. How to use it as a quick brake without cooling so far that you go soft.

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Inside and Outside Usually Make It Last Longer, Not Faster

Adding the clitoris to penetration makes orgasm easier for many women; adding fullness to the clitoris usually makes it slower and fuller. How to combine them.

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A Cock Ring Mostly Changes How an Erection Looks

For most men without an erection problem, a cock ring changes how an erection looks more than how hard it gets or how long it lasts. What it does and does not do, where rings are a medical aid, and how to use one safely.

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The Scrotum's Skin Can Take Touch, the Testicles Want Gentleness

The skin of the scrotum can take touch; the testicles inside want gentle holding, never force. How to touch each, the perineum and the root of the penis, and the pain that is an emergency.

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